I have been blessed to have a couple of different women in my life during different seasons. These women were always older than me and were ladies that I admired for many reasons but particularly for how they let Christ shine through them. They each played an important role in my life as a mentor.
Something I have realized from my own life is that as much as my mom modeled amazing things for me there were times that she couldn’t speak into my life, because I wasn’t listening. However I know she prayed for me to be receptive to other wise, Christian people and allow them to speak into my life. Her prayers were answered and I am now praying the same thing for my children.
The arrangements were different each time, but basically I asked these amazing ladies if they would meet with me a couple of times each month to listen to me, pray with me, challenge me and guide me as a woman, follower of Christ and eventually as a wife and mother. These ladies are precious to me.
These were relationships that I sought out. Some of them were through mentoring programs at church but a couple of them were just godly women that stood out and I really wanted them to teach me and I hoped they would rub off on me. The life lessons and nuggets of wisdom they passed on to me are priceless.
I don’t have a particular person currently to fill that role. I wish I did, but it just has not happened at the moment. But what is neat is that in the blogworld I have found a couple of women that through their blogs I am gleaning amazing truths. I look forward each day to see what Robin has to say or what she may surprise me with. Sometimes I find a neat fun activity to do with my boys and other days I have to sit down and journal over what she shares and where it takes me in my own journey with the Lord. I love it and I feel like she is sharing a bit of her wisdom, love for life and joy with me to help me become a better me.
This morning I think I discovered a new cherished, wise friend. She has no idea I exist but I am so excited to add her blog to my bloglines feed. I know her name is Cyndi and she has an amazing story of forgiveness, redemption and friendship that you can read here. I was so inspired by her thoughts here. She is a mom of 6 boys! Wow!
I am so blessed to learn from and love these ladies from afar. I only hope someday I can have the same amazing influence on at least the people near me and maybe afar.
I’m pretty sure you already are an influence Erica. I’m so humbled and honored that you get a little something from me. I love your willingness to learn and your zest for life. I think you and I learn from each other. You are in such a busy season of life and I’m amazed at how in the midst of it, you take time to reflect and intentionally grow. I’m praying for you my friend~
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I have been reading Cyndi’s blog as well and she is quite a lady. You too are such a neat women, I always love reading about your life- you seem to do a great job living it to the fullest and with authenticity and Christ showing through you!
I am also interested in the mentoring ministry you were involved in through your church. How did it “work” etc. I too have been touched by mentors and we are starting a mentoring ministry at our church- I’d love to hear more about yours to help in the shaping of ours.